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Proverbs 27:17 "Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend." “The
words of the Preacher” on this
occasion have to do primarily with fellowship.
Generally, iron itself in the scripture denotes hardness and solidity.
Iron is thought of as strong and unaffected by other materials.
Hence, God told the prophet Jeremiah, “For,
behold, I have made thee this day a defenced city, and an iron pillar, and
brasen walls against the whole land, against the kings of However, when the iron file is rubbed on the iron blade, that strong iron blade is shaped and sharpened. And, so it is with man. No man is an island unto himself, independent and unaffected by others. No matter how strong he may seem to be, his fellow man may sharpen him or grind him down to slivers. Now, let us consider our verse to meditate upon and grow thereby. In the first place, fellowship is necessary for us. Even when man was in a perfect state, with perfect communion with God, God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone” (Gen. 2:18). This was uttered before man fell. The man needed a companion, one of his own kind. He needed friendship and fellowship. Solomon observed that “one alone” was a “sore travail” and that “two are better than one” (Ecc. 4:8-9). He goes on to support his claim by giving several evidences from his experience. Man needs fellowship and it is not good to abide alone. We need to be sharpened. The blunt instrument is of little use, and can actually be a hindrance, where a sharp edge is needed. However,
there are two types of fellowship: good and bad.
Good fellowship is most profitable to us while bad fellowship is
destructive. Realizing that our
closest companions will exert a tremendous influence on us, they should be
chosen with consummate care. Paul
instructed young Timothy to “Flee also
youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that
call on the Lord out of a pure heart” (II Tim. Our
fellowship should challenge and convict us.
Our close friends should bring out the best in us.
They should be honest with a sincere love of the Lord.
In this way, we should sharpen one another.
The writer of Hebrews wrote, “And
let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works:
Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some
is; but exhorting one another” (Heb. Our
friends should bring us up to a higher and nobler plane.
Solomon wrote, “He that walketh
with wise men shall be wise” (Pro. However,
we oftentimes err in our choice of friends by aiming far too low.
We do not want someone that is going to challenge us and convict us by
their life. We just want a
good-time buddy that does not expect much from us.
This buddy lives to a much lower standard than we believe we should and
keeps our thoughts and affections on things below, not above.
We will probably justify this friendship by thinking that we will have a
good influence on them and help bring them up.
In fact, the very opposite is true.
They are going to bring us down. Paul
wrote, “Be not deceived: evil
communications corrupt good manners” (I Cor. In
reality, this friendship is enjoyable to the flesh.
We do things with them that we would not normally do.
We so easily allow them to coax us into wrong.
We feel like that we have some sort of license with them because they
have no conscience. Let us be
warned, knowing that God brought judgment upon Jehoshaphat causing his
enterprise to fail because of his evil association with Ahaziah (II Chr. In
the second place, we see the aspect of accountability in good fellowship.
That iron blade left to itself will go dull.
God said, “It is not good that
the man should be alone” (Gen. 2:18) before the man fell and had evil
sinful desires in his flesh. The
man needed accountability. Without
accountability in good fellowship, a man will usually go one of two ways.
One way is; he will begin “to
think of himself more highly than he ought to think” (Rom. 12:3).
He begins to become his own standard of measure.
He will look down on others that do not do every little thing the way he
does them. He may even begin to
dismiss everyone else as not being orthodox or sound enough.
(Perhaps this is what happened to Arthur Pink.)
He has no respect to cultural differences that are not violations of
Scripture and thinks his way is the only way. The
other way is; he will run into sin freely.
Having no restraints, he will run to excess. That
lack of fellowship and maintenance of a high standard will cause deterioration
of his moral principles. He will
rationalize and justify a loose lifestyle, with no one to check him.
This is one reason why we are such undisciplined eaters.
We either have no accountability at all, choosing our food foolishly or
else when that accountability is momentarily absent, we cheat and either way we
fail. In conclusion Christian, are your friends propelling you to greater heights in your service to God, or are they hindering you and holding you back? Do they provide accountability and help you to live up to a higher standard? If they are hindering you, you need new friends. If they are a true blessing to you, you should thank God for them, cleave to them, and sharpen one another. God help us to find safety in a multitude of wise counselors! |